Membership Policy
Terms & Conditions
HBH Membership
This document contains an application for membership in the HBH Club of HIM By HER
Foundation, Inc. HIM By HER is a non-profit corporation with Section 501(c)(3) tax-exempt status,
which also includes a non-profit charitable school corporation. It also contains the Membership Rules.
Benefits of HBH Membership. HBH Membership entitles a member to a number of benefits,
including: attending events held at HBH facilities that are open only to HBH Members and guests
(including family members); consumption of meals and beverages at HBH facilities available only to HBH
Members; rental of space at HBH facilities for members’ private events and purchasing of food, beverages
and catering for those events; newsletters and other communications about HBH events and many topics
of interest, including charity; early communications about events and activities ahead of dissemination of
such communications to the general public.
Requirements for Membership. Members must be at least 21 years old, must complete, sign (e-
signatures may be used for online submissions) and submit the Application form; must pay the applicable
membership fee, unless waived; must agree to abide by the Member Rules in effect, and to subsequently
adopted Member Rules; and must have the Application approved by HBH.
All HBH Members agree to abide by the following rules and those subsequently adopted. Failure
to follow Membership Rules may result in sanctions against the Member up to and including termination
of membership. A terminated member shall not be entitled to a refund of any membership fee paid.
Facility Access. Members shall have access to the HBH Club facilities during designated events or posted
dates and times. Members may with separate contract, rent portions of the HBH Club facilities for
permissible events, subject to the conditions of those contracts.
Dress Code. The HBH Club reserves the right to adopt dress codes from time to time that to which
Members and guests must adhere. Members and guests shall address appropriately for activities and
events in the HBH facilities and reflect common decency. When events are identified as “formal” or
“semi-formal” participating Members and guests shall appropriately conform their dress.
Basic Conduct. Members and guests shall engage in lawful, non-nuisance activities while in the HBH
Club facilities, shall respect the rights, tranquility and safety of others, shall not engage in negligent or
willful conduct leading to bodily, emotional or property harm to others or the HBH Club. Members and
guests shall within the HBH Club facilities, observe all existing federal, state and local guidelines for the
prevention and spread of the COVID-19/Corona Virus and other public health communicable diseases in
and around the Club facilities. Member will, while conducting related activities leading up to events at
the HBH Club, and during said events and activities, shall adhere to all federal, state and local anti-
discrimination laws, and shall keep its operations free of any hostile environment, including but not limited
to hostile environments from sexual harassment, racial harassment, national origin harassment, disability
harassment and others.
Prohibited Conduct. Members and guests shall not engage in the following conduct either in the HBH
Club facilities or at HBH sanctioned events, or in dealing with others in connection with HBH Club events:
activities on the HBH Club premises that are illegal (including failure to zoning, licensing, occupancy or
age-restriction requirements); activities which pose an unacceptable or undefinable risk of loss to persons
or property due to safety or security concerns; activities at special events that are inappropriate for the
stated or assumed age group; activities that include “adult” entertainment; activities that damage the
reputation of the HBH Club or its Members or guests; activities involving or either explicitly or implicitly
encouraging the use of illicit substances or underage alcohol consumption; defamatory communication
(including electronic and social media) about events, the HBH Club, its Members or guests, or that
otherwise unfairly damage the reputation of the HBH Club, its Members and guests, and affiliated entities;
and may lead to damage to the reputation of the Landlord and others; violent activities; activities involving
unauthorized use of the HBH Club’s intellectual property; and any other activities, whether expressed or
not, where the HBH Club assesses that the activities are not in the best interest of itself or the community
at large. Unless designated as security or law enforcement personnel, or granted permission by HBH,
HBH Club, Members and guests shall not possess firearms or deadly weapons in HBH Club facilities or
at HBH Club events.
Limitations and Assumption of Risk. Members and guests are solely responsible for their personal
property, and HBH Club shall not be responsible for any damage or theft of for Members’ and guests’
personal property. HBH Club shall not be liable to Members and guest for injury or damages caused by
other Members, guests or third parties, and shall only be liable for personal injury to Members and guests
in the case of proven gross negligence or malfeasance on the part of HBH Club or its agents. Damages
shall be limited to direct damages, and shall not include consequential and inconsequential damages.
HBH Club Membership Rules – 2-10-2024
Sale of Alcoholic Beverages to Non-Members. Alcoholic beverages shall only be provided to or sold to
Members (and NOT non-members), except visiting members and members of an organization affiliated
the HBH Club or an auxiliary of the HBH Club. However, a non-member may purchase his/her own
alcoholic beverages during an approved guest day, which according to law shall not exceed 7 days out of
each month.
Catering. Catering for events at the HBH facilities shall be for the benefit of Members only, unless the
event is during one of the aforementioned guest days.
Guest Days. The HBH Club may have up to seven (7) days per month as a guest day. During this
authorized guest day, alcoholic beverages may be purchased by guests of the club as well as members to
allow the HBH Club to recruit new membership and show the benefits of club membership to interested
citizens. To hold a guest day the HBH Club must contact the Indiana Excise Police office, which has
jurisdiction and request permission to hold a guest day. An authorized guest day may be requested on any
day of the year. An Excise Officer will then mail, fax or HB a club card listing the date requested. This
card must be posted conspicuously on the premises during the day designated as Guest Day. Since the
cards are sometimes sent second class mail, this request needs to be made at least ten (10) days in advance.
Guest Days may not be held unless the card is posted at the premises.
Guest Book, Etc. This is a practice that allows for registration of non-member guests. The HBH Club
shall maintain a sign-in book and members are permitted to sign-in a non-member guest. The guest book
should include the date, name of guest and signature of host member at the very least. The purposes of the
guest book are to allow friends and family access to the club facility and to monitor the purchase of
alcoholic beverages by members for guests. The guest-member ratio is suggested by the Indiana Alcohol
& Tobacco Commission to be kept at near a one-to-one ratio. HBH Club shall keep a guest book in
accordance with I.C. § 7.1-3-20-8.6. The guest book policy does not allow the purchase of alcoholic
beverages by non-members. Only an approved guest day authority allows for non-members to purchase
alcoholic beverages.
Non-members may enter, loiter, and eat in the club facility without any sanctions. In addition, a
non-member may pay for food or non-alcoholic drinks they wish to purchase.
Times When Alcohol Sales Lawful. HBH Club may sell and serve alcoholic beverages Monday through
Sunday, from 7:00 am, local time, to 3:00 am, local time the following morning. The Club has thirty (30)
minutes to clear the bar service after legal service hours. At 3:30 am, Monday thru Sunday, all alcoholic
beverage consumption shall have ceased and all alcoholic beverage containers cleared away from areas of
consumption. The Club may be open for all other activities during the hours at which the club chooses to
operate.
Renting Rooms. The HBH Club may not lease or rent its bar facilities to an outside organization or
persons. Non-members or members who rent a room other than the bar area may bring alcoholic beverages
which have been purchased from someone other than the club into that room. A violation would occur if
the HBH Club sold alcoholic beverages to a non-member who rented a room in the club’s facilities. The
Club may prepare food and provide services other than those related to alcoholic beverages to non-
members. A club member may rent a room or rooms for special occasions and the club may furnish the
alcoholic beverages. The Member must pay for all alcoholic beverages either prior to or immediately
after the event has concluded. There can be no cash bar for non-members unless a guest day authority has
been obtained. HBH Club may use an agent for the function of renting spaces out for events, collecting
fees, and compliance, currently including Reclaiming You, Life Coaching LLC, or others.
BINGO RULES
1. Players must be at least 18; no underage persons are allowed in game areas during Bingo.
2. Callers will allow approximately 45 seconds between Regular Games, and 45 seconds will be given before closing bingos.
3. A player must have the last number called included in your bingo for the bingo to be honored, except on lightning coveralls.
4. Monitors may assist players in making the caller aware a player has bingo, but it is the
player’s responsibility to loudly yell “bingo” to stop or prevent the caller from closing the
game. If the caller starts the letter of the next ball, no previous bingos will be honored, and
the game shall continue. All bingos not verified before the caller closes the game are
invalid.
5. When playing double games, the player must bingo on the last number called for the
first game. A player cannot win both games on the same number; they are separate games.
6. In case of duplicate bingos, prizes will be divided proportionately.
7. A player must take all papers of a package deal given at the time of purchase, with no
subsequent trading or exchanging.
8. Hard cards not in use must be placed face-down on the floor or in the player’s carrier
on the floor but must not be placed on chairs.
9. A player must have a deal card and a receipt by 8:00 p.m. on Tuesdays, Fridays,
and Saturdays, in order to play Bingo.
10. There is no deal splitting. A minimum purchase is 24 cards per person. Each player
must have their own deal card and receipt to play any games, including side games (pull-
tabs, etc.). No one is allowed to stay in the Bingo Hall without a bingo card and receipt.
11. The deal card and second chance coverall sheet must be signed (and include the
player’s printed name and date) by the player to be paid.
12. The deal card for a second chance coverall sheet must be stamped by a monitor.
13. On birthday nights (day) ONLY, a player must show valid I.D. to receive a birthday
discount, if they bingo.
14. If a player has a hold on a pull-tab ticket, they must be either present when the pull-tab
board is called, or leave their name, telephone number, and sign the game board before
leaving the bingo session to collect their prize.
15. Winners of the bingo pull-tab game must redeem the pull-tab ticket vouchers for pull-
tabs, ONLY (no cash), and must use them by the end of the bingo session.
16. Payouts for any sold pull-tabs MUST be redeemed by the end of the bingo.
17. Another player or volunteer may assist a player to cover their card, but no extended
covering and playing is allowed, nor covering and playing for another that leaves the
building. Players must be present to win.
18. No one (players or volunteers) may save a seat. A seat can only be saved by purchasing
a package deal (24 cards) for each set the player is saving (3 seats per table).
19. Please do not sit in seats at tables reserved for the handicapped (until regular warm-ups
begin) unless you have one of the following with you: crutches; walker; or wheelchair.
20. Players may use extra chairs for possessions but must surrender the chairs once games
begin—especially during $10,000.00 games.
21. Cell phones must be on vibrate or reduced ring volume—especially during lightning
coveralls. Answered calls must be done quickly and quietly, as not to disturb other players.
22. If a player continues to NOT raise their hand when winning pull-tab ticket numbers are
announced, the ticket sellers will advise the bingo manager, who instruct the ticket sellers to
discontinue selling pull-tabs to the player.
23. Prize awards may be changed due to weather, attendance, or other issues.
24. Please use trash cans for trash and pull-tab tickets.
25. HIM By HER is not responsible for lost or stolen articles or property.
26. No firearms, loitering, soliciting, panhandling, illegal drugs and substances, or foul or
abusive language are permitted. Do not ask others for money, bingo game sheets or pull-
tabs, nor seek free bingo game sheets or pull-tabs.
27. This is a non-smoking facility unless a portion is specifically designated for smoking.
28. Please remember that all workers are volunteers and members of HIM By HER, and
receive no pay, unless excepted, such as bartenders for bartending services, or completely
voluntary, non-quid pro quo donations.
HBH Membership: Membership Privileges: Membership entitles individuals to attend events held at HBH facilities that are designated for HBH Members and their invited guests (including family members). Members are granted the privilege of consuming meals and beverages at HBH facilities in areas restricted to HBH Members. Members may rent designated spaces at HBH facilities for private events, subject to the terms and conditions of separate rental agreements, and may arrange for food, beverage, and catering services for such events. Members will receive newsletters and other informational communications pertaining to HBH events and various topics of interest, with a focus on charitable initiatives. Members will receive advance notification of upcoming events and activities, prior to the dissemination of such information to the general public. Membership Requirements: Applicants for membership must be a minimum of 21 years of age. Applicants must complete, sign (electronic signatures are acceptable for online submissions), and submit the official Application form. Applicants must remit the applicable membership fee, unless such fee is explicitly waived by HBH. Applicants must agree to abide by the current Member Rules, as well as any Member Rules subsequently adopted by HBH. The submission of an Application does not guarantee membership; all Applications are subject to formal approval by HBH. Member Rules: All HBH Members agree to comply with the following rules and regulations, and any subsequent amendments or additions thereto. Non-compliance with Member Rules may result in disciplinary action, up to and including termination of membership. Members whose membership is terminated shall not be entitled to a refund of any membership fees previously paid. Facility Access: Members shall have access to the HBH Club facilities during scheduled events or posted dates and times. Members may enter into separate contractual agreements to rent designated portions of the HBH Club facilities for permissible events, subject to the specific terms and conditions outlined in those contracts. Dress Code: The HBH Club reserves the right to establish and modify dress codes, which Members and their guests are required to observe. Members and guests are expected to dress appropriately for activities and events held at HBH facilities, adhering to standards of common decency. For events designated as “formal” or “semi-formal,” Members and guests shall ensure their attire is in compliance with the specified requirements. Basic Conduct: Members and guests shall conduct themselves in a lawful and non-disruptive manner while present at HBH Club facilities. Members and guests shall respect the rights, tranquility, and safety of others, and shall refrain from any negligent or intentional actions that could result in physical, emotional, or property damage to other individuals or to the HBH Club. Members and guests shall adhere to all applicable federal, state, and local guidelines pertaining to the prevention and control of communicable diseases, including but not limited to COVID-19/Coronavirus, within the HBH Club facilities. Members shall, during all activities related to HBH Club events, comply with all federal, state, and local anti-discrimination laws, and shall maintain operations free from any hostile environment, including but not limited to hostile environments arising from sexual harassment, racial harassment, national origin harassment, and harassment based on disability. Prohibited Conduct: The following conduct is strictly prohibited for Members and guests, whether occurring within HBH Club facilities, at HBH-sanctioned events, or in connection with HBH Club events: any activities on HBH Club premises that are illegal (including non-compliance with zoning, licensing, occupancy, or age-restriction requirements); activities that present an unacceptable or unquantifiable risk of harm to persons or property due to safety or security concerns; activities at special events that are inappropriate for the stated or implied age group of attendees; activities that involve “adult” entertainment; activities that damage or have the potential to damage the reputation of the HBH Club, its Members, or guests; activities involving or explicitly or implicitly encouraging the use of illicit substances or underage alcohol consumption; defamatory communication (including electronic and social media) concerning events, the HBH Club, its Members, or guests, or that otherwise unfairly damages or has the potential to damage the reputation of the HBH Club, its Members and guests, the Landlord, and affiliated entities; violent activities; activities involving the unauthorized use of the HBH Club’s intellectual property; and any other activities that the HBH Club, in its reasonable discretion, determines are not in the best interest of itself or the community at large. Unless expressly designated as security or law enforcement personnel, or granted specific authorization by HBH, neither HBH Club personnel, Members, nor guests shall possess firearms or deadly weapons within HBH Club facilities or at HBH Club events. Limitations and Assumption of Risk: Members and guests are solely responsible for the security and safekeeping of their personal property. The HBH Club shall not be held responsible for any damage to, or theft of, Members’ and guests’ personal property. The HBH Club shall not be liable to Members or guests for any injury or damages caused by other Members, guests, or third parties. The HBH Club’s liability for personal injury to Members and guests shall be limited to instances of proven gross negligence or willful misconduct on the part of the HBH Club or its authorized agents. In any event, the HBH Club’s liability shall be limited to direct damages, and shall not extend to consequential or incidental damages. Sale of Alcoholic Beverages to Non-Members: The sale or provision of alcoholic beverages is restricted to HBH Members (and specifically excludes non-members), with exceptions for visiting members and members of organizations affiliated with the HBH Club or an auxiliary of the HBH Club. However, non-members may purchase their own alcoholic beverages during approved guest days, which, in accordance with applicable law, shall not exceed seven (7) days per calendar month. Catering: Catering services for events held at HBH facilities are exclusively for the benefit of HBH Members, except during approved guest days as defined above. Guest Days: The HBH Club is permitted to designate up to seven (7) days per month as guest days. During these authorized guest days, alcoholic beverages may be purchased by guests of the club, as well as by members, to facilitate membership recruitment and allow prospective members to experience the benefits of club membership. The HBH Club must obtain prior authorization from the Indiana Excise Police office with jurisdiction over the premises to hold a guest day. Upon approval, an Excise Officer will issue a club card specifying the authorized date(s), which must be conspicuously posted on the premises during the designated Guest Day. As these cards may be delivered via second-class mail, the request for a guest day must be submitted at least ten (10) days in advance. Guest days are prohibited unless the authorization card is prominently displayed on the premises. Guest Book, Etc.: The HBH Club shall maintain a guest book for the registration of non-member guests. Members are permitted to sign in non-member guests, and the guest book shall include, at a minimum, the date, the guest’s name, and the signature of the host member. The purposes of the guest book are to allow friends and family of members access to the club facility and to monitor the purchase of alcoholic beverages by members on behalf of their guests. The Indiana Alcohol & Tobacco Commission recommends maintaining a guest-member ratio of approximately one-to-one. The HBH Club shall maintain a guest book in accordance with I.C. § 7.1-3-20-8.6. It is expressly noted that the guest book policy does not authorize the purchase of alcoholic beverages by non-members; only an approved guest day authorization permits non-members to purchase alcoholic beverages. Non-members are permitted to enter, be present, and consume food within the club facility without penalty. Non-members may also purchase food and non-alcoholic beverages for their own consumption. Times When Alcohol Sales Lawful: Subject to approval by the Indiana Alcohol & Tobacco Commission, the HBH Club is authorized to sell and serve alcoholic beverages Monday through Sunday, from 7:00 a.m., local time, to 3:00 a.m., local time the following morning. The Club is allotted thirty (30) minutes to clear bar service areas after the legal service hours. By 3:30 a.m., Monday through Sunday, all alcoholic beverage consumption must cease, and all alcoholic beverage containers must be removed from consumption areas. The Club may remain open for other activities during its chosen operating hours. Renting Rooms: The HBH Club is prohibited from leasing or renting its bar facilities to any external organization or individual. Non-members or members who rent rooms other than the bar area may bring alcoholic beverages purchased from a source other than the club into those rented rooms. The HBH Club is strictly prohibited from selling alcoholic beverages to any non-member renting a room within the club’s facilities. The Club is permitted to provide food and other services unrelated to alcoholic beverages to non-members. A club member may rent a room or rooms for private events, and the club may provide alcoholic beverages for such events, provided that the Member is responsible for payment of all alcoholic beverage charges either prior to or immediately following the conclusion of the event. Cash bars for non-members are strictly prohibited unless a guest day authorization has been obtained. The HBH Club may utilize an agent for the purpose of renting event spaces, collecting associated fees, and ensuring compliance with relevant regulations; current agents include Reclaiming You, Life Coaching LLC, and others as designated by the HBH Club. Consulting Services Offered to Members: A range of consulting services is available to members, often at preferential pricing. Services Offered: Marketing strategy and consulting Public safety expertise and consulting Business incubation consulting Building strategic relationships among entities Start-up business consulting Cold case homicide consulting Customer service consulting Job placement specialist services Comprehensive writing services Counseling and formation of business entities I.R.S. Section 501(c)(3) application preparation Corporate governance and policy development Corporate board and officer training Strategic planning Branding and marketing campaigns Business plans, pitch decks, and fundraising documents Contract drafting, negotiation, and counseling Media announcements and press releases Grant writing Intellectual property rights counseling Technical writing Audit of corporate practices Grant writing and compliance Curriculum and academic development Startup school initiatives Educational consultant/presenter Christian Counseling Scripture Therapy Psychology Life Coach Clinical Chaplaincy Chaplain services Ordained Ministries Cosmetologist Logo Design Stationary Packaging Advertising Digital Advertising Promotional Material Events Web Design Branding General contracting Tutor School Administration Professional Development Back office Logistics Major Felonies Level 6 Felonies and Misdemeanors Expungements OVWI Leadership Development Programmer and ACES Teacher and Trainer Counselor and Consultant for Couples and Individuals Program and Project Developer Multi-Media Production Photography Videography Event Coordination & Media Production Lighting setup Green screen production On-set media coordination Live & Virtual Event Media Support Product videography & photography The fees for HIM BY HER Integrity Consulting services may be offset by approved grant requests from the HBH foundation. The charity gaming operations are structured to support the financial solvency of the HBH foundation through charitable means, under the auspices of HIM BY HER INC.